Redha kah kita bila sesuatau yang kita inginkan jauh pergi atau jauh untuk digapai? Redha kah kita kalau apa yang kita rancang sebaliknya menyakiti kita? Ye, manusia tiada yang sempurna. Selalu inginkan yang terbaik dalam hidup. Tapi, sudah terbaik kah kita untuk orang yang memerlukan kita? Tiada jawapan. Sebab kita terlalu memikirkan kesempurnaan sampaikan sanggup melukakan hati seseorang. Seseorang yang mungkin mengharapkan untuk mendapat perlindungan bukan diambil kesempatan. Waullahuallam, manusia sesama manusia sungguh sekali tidak boleh membaca fikiran antara satu sama lain.
Pasrah kah dengan apa yang dah terjadi? Adakah pasrah beerti matang untuk terima segala nya? Apakah maksud pasrah sebenarnya? Pasrah untuk dilukai ? Untuk diperkotak-katik kan?? Pasrah untuk dipandang hina? Pasrah bermaksud berserah tapi dari sudut apakah yang kita perlu berserah tuh? Banyak persoalkan? Mungkin sudah cukup matang untuk terima tapi bukan untuk melupakan hal yang dah terjadi. Kalau sesuatu perkara itu menyakiti kita sendiri, pasrah. Kuatkan hati, Insyaallah..
Saturday 30 March 2013
Friday 22 March 2013
No more
Dah lama tak keras kan hati. Asyik berlembut jek. So this nite i'll decide to be heartless. This not my choice but, Hurmm. Tepuk dada tanya hati.
p/s: just for while, maybe forever.
p/s: just for while, maybe forever.
Tuesday 19 March 2013
Hati
Terasa hati. Jangan tanya kenapa nanti banjir pulak. Hohohohoo nyampah r dengan diri sendiri. Lembik r lembik r.
Monday 18 March 2013
Thursday 14 March 2013
Mari ber-wordpress!
Macam mana tahu pasal wordpress.? Ader lah sorang web designer tuh bagi tahu kalau pakai wordpress lagi cun, kemas. Yeke? Aku pakai apsal susah sangat nak khatam?? Loading lembab pulak tuh. Sangat menguji kesabaran. Aihhh... 2 month ago create account baru harini terniat nak kobek-2. Haha banyak masa lapang kan. *Banyak lah sangat.~ So nih la hasil yang tak berapa nak mengeluarkan hasil yang cantik. Buruk beno. Hihihi.. I'm just like the header jer. So like me. Hey neko hey.!! So boleh lah yer tengok-2, pandang-2 wordpress kiter ^_^
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Wednesday 13 March 2013
Alif Ba Ta..: cantiknye LELAKI.. gagahnye WANITA..
Alif Ba Ta..: cantiknye LELAKI.. gagahnye WANITA..: Nak tahu dimana Kecantikan Lelaki???? Kecantikan seorang lelaki bukan kepada rupa fizikal tetapi pada murni rohani. Lelaki yang cantik adal...
81 ways how to treat your wife in Islam
1. Make her feel secure, don’t threaten her with divorce.
2. Give sincere Salaams.
3. Treat her gently, like a fragile vessel.
4. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.
5. Be generous with her.
6. Warm the seat for her, you will warm her heart.
7. Avoid anger, be in Wudhu at all times.
8. Look good and smell great for your wife.
9. Don’t be rigid or harsh-hearted or you will be broken.
10. Be a good listener.
11. Yes for flattery. No for arguing.
12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, and names she loves to hear.
13. A pleasant surprise.
14. Preserve and guard the tongue.
15. Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings.
16. Give sincere compliments.
17. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family.
18. Speak of the topic of her interest.
19. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is.
20. Give each other gifts.
21. Get rid of routine, surprise her.
22. Have a good opinion of each other.
23. Have good manners, overlook small things, don’t nitpick.
24. Add a drop of patience, increase during pregnancy, menses.
25. Expect and respect her jealously.
26. Be humble.
27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers.
28. Help at home, with housework.
29. Help her love your relatives, but don’t try to force her.
30. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you.
31. Remember your wife in Du’a.
32. Leave the past for Allah, don’t dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
33. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
34. Take Shaitan as your enemy, not your wife.
35. Put food in your wife’s mouth.
36. Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to protect.
37. Show her your smile.
38. Don’t ignore the small things, deal with them before they be come big.
39. Avoid being harsh-hearted.
40. Respect and show that you appreciate her thinking.
41. Help her to find and build her inner strengths and skills.
42. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within Halaal boundaries.
43. Help her take care of the children.
44. Give her gifts with your tongue, be an artist with your compliments.
45. Sit down and eat meals together.
46. Let her know that you will be traveling or returning from travel, give her sufficient notice.
47. Don’t leave home in anger.
48. Maintain the secrecy and privacy of the home.
49. Encourage each other in worship.
50. Respect and fulfill her rights upon you.
51. Live with her in kindness, goodness, fairness in good and bad times.
52. Kiss your wife, foreplay, don’t jump on her like a bull.
53. Keep disputes between the two of you, don’t take it outside.
54. Show care for her health and well-being.
55. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself.
56. Share your happiness and sadness with her.
57. Have mercy for her weaknesses.
58. Be a firm support for her to lean on.
59. Accept her as is, she is a package deal.
60. Have a good intention for her.
61. Cook a dish for her.
62. Designate a nice, clean, spacious area in your home for the two of you to pray at night whenever you can.
63. Women love flowers. Make a trail of them on the floor leading to the gift you made for her.
64. Give her a nice massage when she least expects it.
65. Send your wife a text message out of the blue with a message of love.
66. Send your wife an email without a reason.
67. Go out on a date or a get-away for the weekend in a nice location, preferably without kids.
68. Do something for your wife’s family, whether it is a gift, or a chat with her teen brother who needs mentoring, or whatever. It will get you lots of brownie points.
69. Do not keep reminding and demanding your rights all the time.
70. Shop groceries for her and call her from the store and ask her what she needs for the home, for herself or for her to give to people as gifts.
71. Ask her if she would like to invite her female friends over for ladies only get together and arrange for the dinner.
72. Ask her to send gifts to her parents and siblings.
73. Help her parents pay off debt. Send her poor relatives some money.
74. Write love notes or poems and place them in the book she’s been reading.
75. If she tells you something she had just learned from the Qur’an or Hadith, do not dismiss her or ridicule her effort, instead listen to her and take her word.
76. Plant her a kitchen garden with all kind of herbs she needs for cooking.
78. Update her PC or laptop with a new one or get her a new mobile phone.
79. Learn to do a special massage technique and surprise her with your new expertise.
80. Teach your children to respect and honor their mother.
81. Be humorous with her when she makes a mistake in the kitchen (like when she put too much salt or burnt her baking
copy paste by : Alif Ba Ta (:
2. Give sincere Salaams.
3. Treat her gently, like a fragile vessel.
4. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.
5. Be generous with her.
6. Warm the seat for her, you will warm her heart.
7. Avoid anger, be in Wudhu at all times.
8. Look good and smell great for your wife.
9. Don’t be rigid or harsh-hearted or you will be broken.
10. Be a good listener.
11. Yes for flattery. No for arguing.
12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, and names she loves to hear.
13. A pleasant surprise.
14. Preserve and guard the tongue.
15. Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings.
16. Give sincere compliments.
17. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family.
18. Speak of the topic of her interest.
19. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is.
20. Give each other gifts.
21. Get rid of routine, surprise her.
22. Have a good opinion of each other.
23. Have good manners, overlook small things, don’t nitpick.
24. Add a drop of patience, increase during pregnancy, menses.
25. Expect and respect her jealously.
26. Be humble.
27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers.
28. Help at home, with housework.
29. Help her love your relatives, but don’t try to force her.
30. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you.
31. Remember your wife in Du’a.
32. Leave the past for Allah, don’t dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
33. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
34. Take Shaitan as your enemy, not your wife.
35. Put food in your wife’s mouth.
36. Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to protect.
37. Show her your smile.
38. Don’t ignore the small things, deal with them before they be come big.
39. Avoid being harsh-hearted.
40. Respect and show that you appreciate her thinking.
41. Help her to find and build her inner strengths and skills.
42. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within Halaal boundaries.
43. Help her take care of the children.
44. Give her gifts with your tongue, be an artist with your compliments.
45. Sit down and eat meals together.
46. Let her know that you will be traveling or returning from travel, give her sufficient notice.
47. Don’t leave home in anger.
48. Maintain the secrecy and privacy of the home.
49. Encourage each other in worship.
50. Respect and fulfill her rights upon you.
51. Live with her in kindness, goodness, fairness in good and bad times.
52. Kiss your wife, foreplay, don’t jump on her like a bull.
53. Keep disputes between the two of you, don’t take it outside.
54. Show care for her health and well-being.
55. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself.
56. Share your happiness and sadness with her.
57. Have mercy for her weaknesses.
58. Be a firm support for her to lean on.
59. Accept her as is, she is a package deal.
60. Have a good intention for her.
61. Cook a dish for her.
62. Designate a nice, clean, spacious area in your home for the two of you to pray at night whenever you can.
63. Women love flowers. Make a trail of them on the floor leading to the gift you made for her.
64. Give her a nice massage when she least expects it.
65. Send your wife a text message out of the blue with a message of love.
66. Send your wife an email without a reason.
67. Go out on a date or a get-away for the weekend in a nice location, preferably without kids.
68. Do something for your wife’s family, whether it is a gift, or a chat with her teen brother who needs mentoring, or whatever. It will get you lots of brownie points.
69. Do not keep reminding and demanding your rights all the time.
70. Shop groceries for her and call her from the store and ask her what she needs for the home, for herself or for her to give to people as gifts.
71. Ask her if she would like to invite her female friends over for ladies only get together and arrange for the dinner.
72. Ask her to send gifts to her parents and siblings.
73. Help her parents pay off debt. Send her poor relatives some money.
74. Write love notes or poems and place them in the book she’s been reading.
75. If she tells you something she had just learned from the Qur’an or Hadith, do not dismiss her or ridicule her effort, instead listen to her and take her word.
76. Plant her a kitchen garden with all kind of herbs she needs for cooking.
78. Update her PC or laptop with a new one or get her a new mobile phone.
79. Learn to do a special massage technique and surprise her with your new expertise.
80. Teach your children to respect and honor their mother.
81. Be humorous with her when she makes a mistake in the kitchen (like when she put too much salt or burnt her baking
copy paste by : Alif Ba Ta (:
Monday 11 March 2013
Her heart is talking
She's being silences and keep smile like nothing happen but she knew someone has came between she and you. Not everyone will express to talk because for them to keep quiet rather than say that could lead to a fight is the best action.
William Shakespeare;
William Shakespeare;
"Don't hurt someone for other someone else because karma always beside you"
Sunday 10 March 2013
played around, beware.
Fact:
Littlep/s: dear Loser, i know your name.shitwhen those someone being nice with a guy that she knew he had relay. Actually maybe she doesn't knew. Okayyy that's cool.
Saturday 9 March 2013
Tuesday 5 March 2013
not-so . FULLSTOP
Definition of not-so?Banyak definasi yang boleh digunakan and depends kepada kata kerja. Wah dah macam teacher grammer puloks.! hiks ^^ Tapi sekarang bukan nak cakap pasal oh my english tapi nak cakap pasal not-so yang sometimes is nothing and zero? Pahe dok? Nak mention sangat benda tuh kang macam create problem pulak. Tapi biler simpan, pendam bin pekasam sakit pulak hati kiter nih kan. Aigoo what should i do ugh? Just let bygone be bygone? No wayyyy... :/ Nih kes nak luah tapi tak terluah. Takut? Ermmm little. First time kenal pekataan not-so sis yang ajar. She told me that i'm not-so her sis. Maksud nya macam yew tak yew jer haaa gitewww... Aku hati kering buat tak tahu jelah. Hahahaha. Tapi biler melibatkan hati jadi erkkk lembik macam jeli. Cepat terasa bagai. Being hate with own heart when faced this situation. Yelah orang tengok macam hati kering + kalis maki (*tapi jangan sampai balas balik). *Aphal tetibe macam mati kutu, tak tahu nak tulis aperrr... Hahaha k bye.!
Monday 4 March 2013
L for Loser
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Loser,, Loser,, Loser,,
Wednesday 20 February 2013
cin<<"brokenheart";
Sadness. That's i feel right now. Why me.? Why you can't told the truth things with me.? Why ugh.???? By the way, thanks for the experience but i don't want keep them. So you can take all of your memory. Now exit from my life. You're just my past-tense. FULLSTOP.\
*sorry doesn't mean anything for me
*sorry doesn't mean anything for me
Tuesday 19 February 2013
compile,debug--> cout>>"hurt";
"Relationship is not TRY and ERROR"Quotes who I got from the book tittle’s is How Can I Ever Trust You Again?. Yes, certain people who got problem in their relationship try to solve the
constraints in the relationship but to confront the very beginning should be treated to prevent a fight to be great. Great?? No, I means the big trouble.
In fact, they will say like this when cheating partner;
“Who’s that bitch??”
“You lied to me!!”
Pffftt come on, don’t ever said like that. Try to be positive when removing words from your mouth.
Like this;
“Do you have to do something behind me?”
“Whether she is too beautiful than me?”
Yes… On my way to be positive thinker but for me is not easy. Hahaha. So, the conclusion is let’s to be the best positive thinking and beware with your own words like some quotes said;
“Open your mind before open your mouth.”
p.s: This my opinion and fact from the book. Please enjoyed with your reading and feel free to comment (:
Monday 18 February 2013
For You ... by Angus & Julia Stone
If I talk real slowly, if I try real hard
To make my point dear, that you have my heart
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
If you love me with all of your heart
If you love me
I'll make you a star in my universe
You'll never have to go to work
You'll spend every day
Shining your light my way
If I talk real slowly, if I hold your hand
If you look real closely my love
You might understand
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
If you love me with all that you are
If you love me
I'll make you a star in my universe
You'll never have to go to work
You'll spend every day
Shining your light my way
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
If you love me with all of your heart
If you love me
I'll make you a star in my universe
You'll never have to go to work
You'll spend every day
Shining your light my way
// started love this song. Why ugh.? No comment (:
To make my point dear, that you have my heart
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
If you love me with all of your heart
If you love me
I'll make you a star in my universe
You'll never have to go to work
You'll spend every day
Shining your light my way
If I talk real slowly, if I hold your hand
If you look real closely my love
You might understand
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
If you love me with all that you are
If you love me
I'll make you a star in my universe
You'll never have to go to work
You'll spend every day
Shining your light my way
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
Here I go, I'll tell you what you already know
If you love me with all of your heart
If you love me
I'll make you a star in my universe
You'll never have to go to work
You'll spend every day
Shining your light my way
// started love this song. Why ugh.? No comment (:
Thursday 7 February 2013
Earphone R and L
I love music. Yes, suka dengar lagu lagi-lagi ikut situation. Kalau tengah gloomy mula dah layan rock kapak, dulu-2 lah kan. sekarang up sikit, layan mariah carrey kew and so on. Kalau tengah bengang, layan lagu paramore, TATU, Linkin Park or vokalis yang hardcore-hardcore. Then mula lah berangan nak jadi paramore. Ceit, pui :p macam situation sekarang nih duk tersengguk macam ayam patuk tanah boleh lah layan faint_linkin park. Confirm celik mata. Kalau tak celik gak tuh kes mata banyak gam. Hohoho... Tapi sekarang nih lagi suka dengar yang bingit-bingit. Sebab telinga nih sound trouble. Ehhh????
That's What You Get by Paramore
No sir, well I don't wanna be the blame, not anymore.
It's your turn, to take a seat while we're settling the final score.
And why do we like to hurt, so much?
I can't decide
You have made it harder just to go on
And why?
All the possibilities...
Well I was wrong
That's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa!
That's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa...
I drowned out all my sense with the sound of it's beating.
And that's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa.
I wonder, how am I supposed to feel when you're not here.
'Cause I burned every bridge I ever built when you were here.
I still try... holding onto silly things, I never learn.
Oh why? All the possibilities. I'm sure you've heard.
That's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa!
That's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa...
I drowned out all my sense with the sound of it's beating.
And that's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa.
Pain, make your way to me. (to me)
And I'll always be just so inviting.
If I ever start to think straight,
This heart will start a riot in me,
Let's start... Start, hey!
Why do we like to hurt so much?
Oh why do we like to hurt so much?
That's what you get when you let your heart win!
Whoa.
That's what you get when you let your heart win, whoa.
That's what you get when you let your heart win, whoa.
I can't trust myself with anything but this,
And that's what you get when you let your heart win, whoa.
It's your turn, to take a seat while we're settling the final score.
And why do we like to hurt, so much?
I can't decide
You have made it harder just to go on
And why?
All the possibilities...
Well I was wrong
That's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa!
That's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa...
I drowned out all my sense with the sound of it's beating.
And that's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa.
I wonder, how am I supposed to feel when you're not here.
'Cause I burned every bridge I ever built when you were here.
I still try... holding onto silly things, I never learn.
Oh why? All the possibilities. I'm sure you've heard.
That's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa!
That's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa...
I drowned out all my sense with the sound of it's beating.
And that's what you get when you let your heart win. Whoa.
Pain, make your way to me. (to me)
And I'll always be just so inviting.
If I ever start to think straight,
This heart will start a riot in me,
Let's start... Start, hey!
Why do we like to hurt so much?
Oh why do we like to hurt so much?
That's what you get when you let your heart win!
Whoa.
That's what you get when you let your heart win, whoa.
That's what you get when you let your heart win, whoa.
I can't trust myself with anything but this,
And that's what you get when you let your heart win, whoa.
Songwriters: WILLIAMS, HAYLEY / FARRO, JOSH / YORK, TAYLOR
Wednesday 6 February 2013
Craving, craving,
Aloha... ((:
Hamboi rajin pulak ber-belog yew sza. ngeee :D Actaully mengantuk larh kena aircond kat ofis. (alasan)
Well, tadi sampai je ofis terus log in belog. Check friend list, terpandang belog D@ri D@pur Kec@h. Herm herm kiter kan pantang tengok makanan. Tengok pun dah cukup tapi kalau dapat lagi cukup + bersyukur. Hewhew.. So kobek-kobek lah belog tuh kejap. Sempat gak lah copy paste resepi kakak tuh macam pavlova & red rubbies. Nanti nak try. (bunyi jew) Seriously tabik gak kat orang yang rajin + pandai masak nih. Lagi-lagi bab desert. Fuhhh tak payah sebok-sebok nak menabung kat secret recepi ker, empire gallery ker, padi ker, food foundary ker or tempat-tempat desert yang BEST in capslock. Perlu ker nak capslock? YE PERLU. Hoho.... For me la kan, desert yang tengah hot list nih red velvet, pavlova, crepe cake (the best ever at Food Foundary),italian rainbow cake. Ohhhh damnnn... I want.! I want.! :3 After this kena belajar masak jugak. Nak introduce 1st cake kat ehem-ehem. Hewhew <3
So if you ask me what i want.? I just want the desert. Fullstop.!
Hamboi rajin pulak ber-belog yew sza. ngeee :D Actaully mengantuk larh kena aircond kat ofis. (alasan)
Well, tadi sampai je ofis terus log in belog. Check friend list, terpandang belog D@ri D@pur Kec@h. Herm herm kiter kan pantang tengok makanan. Tengok pun dah cukup tapi kalau dapat lagi cukup + bersyukur. Hewhew.. So kobek-kobek lah belog tuh kejap. Sempat gak lah copy paste resepi kakak tuh macam pavlova & red rubbies. Nanti nak try. (bunyi jew) Seriously tabik gak kat orang yang rajin + pandai masak nih. Lagi-lagi bab desert. Fuhhh tak payah sebok-sebok nak menabung kat secret recepi ker, empire gallery ker, padi ker, food foundary ker or tempat-tempat desert yang BEST in capslock. Perlu ker nak capslock? YE PERLU. Hoho.... For me la kan, desert yang tengah hot list nih red velvet, pavlova, crepe cake (the best ever at Food Foundary),italian rainbow cake. Ohhhh damnnn... I want.! I want.! :3 After this kena belajar masak jugak. Nak introduce 1st cake kat ehem-ehem. Hewhew <3
So if you ask me what i want.? I just want the desert. Fullstop.!
MUST TRY.!
>crepe cake flavor: Peach & Walnut caramel<\
by: Food Foundary section 17
>pavlova<
by: serai, empire gallery
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